ONLY READ THIS if u r over 40!
I'm so excited about this! It all makes so much sense that I had to share it. It's a great book about the spirituality of the "second half of life".
Falling Upward by R. Rohr
· Even painful parts and people belong
· If we’ve forgiven ourselves for falling we can now forgive others
· We can hold sadness with less anxiety (St. John of the Cross’ “luminous darkness”)
· Our superiority complex is seen as ego based and we learn to ignore it
· Most attacks on evil, we learn, just produce another kind of evil and inflate our self-image
· In the second half of life we influence events, work for change, quietly persuade, change ourselves, pray and forgive
· This half of life is more about the 8 Beatitudes than about the 10 Commandments
· Fewer words are needed
· Life is more participatory than assertive because God has taken care of things
· We no longer need to collect goods because it’s time to give back
· We are now more than ever before in a position to change people but we don’t need to.
In the second half of life we become (hopefully) a person of
wisdom. Wisdom happily lives with
mystery, doubt and unknowing. In such
living, the mystery resolves itself. In
the second half of life
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We return to simplicity· Even painful parts and people belong
· If we’ve forgiven ourselves for falling we can now forgive others
· We can hold sadness with less anxiety (St. John of the Cross’ “luminous darkness”)
· Our superiority complex is seen as ego based and we learn to ignore it
· Most attacks on evil, we learn, just produce another kind of evil and inflate our self-image
· In the second half of life we influence events, work for change, quietly persuade, change ourselves, pray and forgive
· This half of life is more about the 8 Beatitudes than about the 10 Commandments
· Fewer words are needed
· Life is more participatory than assertive because God has taken care of things
· We no longer need to collect goods because it’s time to give back
· We are now more than ever before in a position to change people but we don’t need to.
As St. Augustine put it in his Confessions,
“You were within, but I was without. You were with me, but I was not with
you. So you called, you shouted, you
broke through my deafness, you flared, blazed and banished my blindness, you
lavished your fragrance and I gasped.”
This shining person is the goal of humanity
and the delight of God.
Falling Upward by R. Rohr (Ch 10)